Music & Rituals
Whether it's a recognized tradition or a subconscious ritual, my family never fails to play our deceased loved one’s favorite music at their funeral services. My family is Protestant Christian and our funeral traditions are in line with the basics of our religion. Our funerals generally follow the same traditional routine, but despite aligning with the traditional religious practices for the events, the music of our funerals is rarely religious. I didn’t notice this factor was unique to my maternal family until I was older and began attending other families' funerals where the music primarily consisted of hymns. Our music for funerals usually consists of our loved one’s favorite songs or at least favorite artists. Since I am from the rural South, that usually consists of a lot of country music, despite how silly that sounds to say aloud. That’s not to say we play no Christian music at any funeral, just that the music reflects the music our loved one listened to in their lifetim...